A life changing illness is never welcomed. Whether it happens to you or a loved one, everyone needs to pull together to adapt to life after illness.
Heart attacks, strokes and cancers are far more common than we would like them to be.
And once your life has been affected by these serious illnesses, there is sometimes no going back to how things once were.
But it doesn’t mean you can’t live life to the full after a serious life changing illness. But it may mean you have a long period of recuperation and rehabilitation. We all need to take care of our health seriously all the time. Never is it more important than after we have suffered a major illness.
Taking care of frail, elderly parents is much harder if they have become ill too. The first thing to remember is that you are not alone. You can and should ask for help. And you shouldn’t ever feel guilty for doing so. Parenting is a tough job. Your parents were undoubtedly superstars in raising you. But taking care of elderly parents is not the same. You don’t need to feel guilty if you find yourself struggling.
Rehabilitation after a life changing illness takes a lot of time and care. Most people are not in a position to give up their jobs and care for someone that intently. Whether it’s your spouse, your child, your sibling or your parent, ask for professional support. A professional rehabilitation center will have the facilities and the expert staff on hand. It helps to ensure this period in your life doesn’t drag on for any longer than is necessary.
Anyone who has had a major illness or accident can quite rightly feel pretty sorry for themselves. Part of the rehabilitation process is about developing a positive attitude. It’s needed for a ‘can-do’ approach. Life will be very different, and all actions may be more tentative. But it’s up to everyone involved in the care plan to help support the transition and life after illness. This includes you and the patient.
Adaption is often key. This could be finding different ways of getting around, and alternative methods of communication. They can help everyone move forward positively. Physical therapies can help rebuild the strength and movements that are needed to rebuild a more independent life. Yes, it will take work, and yes, it will take time. Working together as a large team means there is less pressure and stress on the individuals.